When I became a Mom I thought I was the one who would see the whole world differently. I thought I’d start wearing Bermuda shorts and care whether or not my jewelry matched my outfit. I thought a baby would make my whole world shift into perspective, that what should matter would matter and what … Continue reading
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Protected: Why? Why? Because I understood him when he spoke Thai…
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But I’m a Mom, Are Sexy and Mom antonyms outside of the porn world?
Looking back on my life, I would hardly call myself a woman who owned her sexuality. In fact, I can very clearly remember the times in my life that I was fully in control of a sexual situation and was completely free. There are very few times. I was cute and goofy. That’s usually what … Continue reading
Sexiness vs Sensibilities: Being Woman and Caitlyn Jenner
I’m feeding my baby. She is feeding her soul.
You don’t have to look away,
But you don’t have to stare either. Continue reading
A Birth Story
When it started, it felt like a stomach ache. Every once in a while it was a just a little stomach ache. They were about five minutes apart. Normally that’s when they tell you to head to the hospital, but if all went well I wasn’t going to end up there at all. We called … Continue reading
I am C. I am a Ch. I am Church hater part II.
Part 1 My niece came down for a few days this week. It’s monumental because she hasn’t been allowed to visit her grandparents down here for five years. Shortly before my husband and I got married his parents and his brother’s family had a falling out. The five kids and two parents in that household … Continue reading
BDSM: A return to traditional roles?
Thanks to Fifty Shades of Grey, there has been a big spotlight on BDSM lately. I haven’t taken a real interest in it, not having read the book myself, until I read “The Joy of Submission” as told to Erin Zammett Ruddy in Marie Claire about a woman who sexually empowered herself in a maledom … Continue reading
Feminist Modesty, Oxymoron?
I love Christina Aguilera. Whatever, everyone has that person whom they loved in high school and is maybe a little ashamed to own up to loving. In college, I was a Women’s Studies minor and we brought up Christina. This one girl said that she liked her so much better now that she was modest. … Continue reading
Walk of No Shame
When I was in college I remember staying the night with this one guy and at about six or seven in the morning I said I was going to head back to my dorm. He asked if I was really okay doing the walk of shame. I was kind of taken aback. Shame? You guys … Continue reading
Homosexuality and “Handedness”
One of my all-time favorite movies is “The Family Stone”. I love because the family is crazy and mean and so full of love for each other. One of the sons in the movie is gay. He and his husband come for Christmas clash with his brother’s girlfriend. She, Meredith, asks if nature vs.nurture is … Continue reading